1. The disadvantages that Elizabeth are referring to is the fact that her parent’s marriage is not a happy, settled one since her father is no longer really inlove with her mother, but instead he finds it much easier to just simply tolerate her . Mr and Mrs Bennet have been married for a long time , but they do not really communicate with each other. Mr. Bennet no longer demonstrates any affection towards his wife and is tired of the way she behaves and as a result he has lost all respect for her. they both can never agree on anything because they each have different views for how they see things., Mrs. Bennet’s attitude easily annoys her husband because she makes a big scene or ‘fuss’ out of everything and as a result, this causes Mr. Bennet do nothing else but to keep his distance.
2. Every single ounce of energy that adults put into their relationship will come back to haunt them through your children.This is because children are great imitators of less than perfect behavior and if they see the two adults constantly arguing, calling each other names, putting each other down, or hitting each other, you will probably see them repeating these negative behaviors. They will probably feel insecure, and this insecurity might be reflected in poor grades, bad behavior at school or home, or even depression. If the two adults are going through a tough time, they should work on their relationship and in this way, the entire family will benefit from that, not just the two of them.
3. FOR: By not separating, they give their kids a good example of how to deal with problems and how to overcome such great obstacles in life. Kids learn the importance of teamwork and compromise. If each parent makes up their mind to forgive each other and start all over, the life of the child will be much better in the future. This is because the children will have positive role models and an ideal family to live for, they will be proud that they have such a strong family and will always look up to their parents. As a result also, the children would not have to worry about separation of their parents or any other disadvantages that would have been introduced due to the separation.
AGAINST: First of all, if a marriage is failing and there is no hope of fixing it, it makes no sense to stay just for the sake of the children. Even though children are resilient they are better off with parents in different households than to grow up in an environment that is often filled with bicker, arguments, fights and most of all a “loveless” relationship which they will most likely imitate in relationships that they have when they get older. I don’t think that it is acceptable to have children grow up and function in an environment of hatred or extreme dislike because this could scar them mentally and emotionally and allow academical disturbance.
AGAINST: First of all, if a marriage is failing and there is no hope of fixing it, it makes no sense to stay just for the sake of the children. Even though children are resilient they are better off with parents in different households than to grow up in an environment that is often filled with bicker, arguments, fights and most of all a “loveless” relationship which they will most likely imitate in relationships that they have when they get older. I don’t think that it is acceptable to have children grow up and function in an environment of hatred or extreme dislike because this could scar them mentally and emotionally and allow academical disturbance.
